Starring Alcoholism
Alcoholism shows up on the movie screen, in TV shows, the pages of books and for some of us, in our lives. For those who…
Life After an Alcoholic Husband
Alcoholism segued subtly into our marriage, stealthlike, until it was everything in our lives. Now, years after my husband’s passing from alcoholic hepatitis, a glance…
Selling His Stuff
The trio of 8″ inch tall plastic dolls that Kellogg’s issued in the 1960s—Snap, Crackle and Pop—guard my kitchen from an overhead shelf, next to…
A Hopeful New Year
Unlike any other time of the year, the end of December pressures us to take stock. Looking back is painful. Looking ahead is…
Good Grief, It’s the Holidays
The last thing you want to do is celebrate, but it’s everywhere. Office parties. Family gatherings. Friendly get-togethers. Is the scent of balsam making you…
Post-Mortem Letters
In the spirit of celebrating love after death, I’m sharing this letter of my late husband’s to his deceased mother that I came across recently. Unlike…
My Late Husband & My Boyfriend
If my late husband, Robert, were to meet my boyfriend, Billy, they’d have little to talk about—not that I’m worried they’ll bump into each other,…
Continuing Bonds – Reinventing Relationships After Death
We all have our circles. Your late spouse had family, friends, colleagues, acquaintances—most of whom you know. You have a circle, as well. Inevitably the…
Your Late Husband’s Blessing
Crash Widow Lady Mary of Downton Abbey has an emotional scene at Matthew’s grave. “I will always love you,” she vows. The inevitable questions persist:…
Death Anniversaries
We remember our dearly departed throughout the year, but on death anniversaries we can count on the calendar to trigger our emotions. Similar to remembering…
Paula Ganzi McGloin 